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Others may choose to use this massage as foreplay or as a method for enhancing the mood and increasing the erotic awareness of both lovers. For this type of massage you may want to get some CDs that are less on the romantic side and more of the stimulating variety- I-m talking about something closer to Billie Myers than to the Best Chill-Out Compilation- Volume 4 or whatever. Make liberal use of scented massage oil and make sure it-s a really spicy brand, not something suited for relaxation.

As always, don-t rush in and start with the genitals. Take your time and give a good all around massage before focusing on the pelvic muscles. Massage these muscles into a welcome state of relaxation that will allow your lover to achieve arousal and yet stay relaxed for a long time. Whisper into her ear how much you want her and how sexy she looks. Complete the massage by moving to the most important parts of the body. Again, don-t rush- if you-ve been taking things slowly thus far, don-t spoil the mood now. Do a good job and remember that a prolonged and strong orgasm is better than a three-second rush to the head. Save the rush for spontaneous sex in the park.

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You must always keep in mind that this kind of massage is not meant to work the muscles and drive fatigue away, but to awaken the hidden mystic energy at the bottom of your spine and bring your body and spirit in complete harmony with the universe. If you-re planning to use music, then you should take the trouble to find some that has been designed to go along with meditation and Tantric massage. Such records are rare, but nonetheless available for sale. Some chill-out songs are also good, but it takes experience to identify the suitable ones.

Tantra massage makes use of light, sensual and slow strokes that can channel energy and increase the body-s sensitivity to a different reality. You may wish to apply some medium pressure along the sides of the spine in order to make your massage effective, but otherwise confine yourself to light pressure and to the movements inspired from the way energy flows through the body and especially the classic movement upwards from the base of the spine. A lot of skill and an intimate knowledge of your inner energy are required before even thinking to attempt Tantric massage.

Any kind of oil, lotion or cr-me goes along great with this massage, but you would do well to stay away from scented oils because they may draw unwanted attention to earthly things. Meditation and music are the only things you need for this kind of massage. Tantric massage can also be used to call forth the healing energy of the body in order to help people recover faster from injuries or illnesses. Couples can try Tantric massage in order to increase their intimacy and to create strong emotional bond between the two partners by building love, tenderness and trust instead of sex.

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And here are a few tips for all you people willing to make your lovers happy, but who are unsure of how to go about it. It doesn-t really matter how you feel about going down on a woman- just keep in mind that she will love it if you really know how to do it and that she will probably be happy to reciprocate. What could be better than a hot lady going down on you and not just out of a sense of obligation, but because she actually wants to do it? Those who are already proficient at oral sex and only want to brush up their skills should read on. This information can-t hurt you.

The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman-s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina. So stick your tongue in. It won-t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening.

Once the woman is hot enough that licking her vagina is not enough anymore, you can move on to the most sensitive target. Pull back her labia and bring the clitoris into the light. Now you can greet the clitoris with a quick suck. Just take it in your mouth, slide your lips up and down it and then let go. After the initial greeting, you can get to some serious business by taking the clitoris between your lips and flicking your tongue over it. The speed of the tongue depends on how sensitive the clitoris in question is.

Oral sex goes hand in hand with G-spot or anal stimulation. It-s perfectly natural that while your tongue is playing with the clitoris or tracing the labia, your fingers should wonder around. So stick a finger or two inside her vagina (the palm of your hand must face up), a couple of inches from the opening. Then move your fingers as if you-re making the -come hither- sign on the front wall of the vagina. If you-re on target, you should feel a little bump in the wall and your lady should let out a cry of delight.

Alternatively, you can stick a finger inside her anus and introduce her to the exotic pleasure from beyond the Great Wall of the Vagina. Use lubrication on your finger and on her anus. Don-t think you-re man enough to go in dry, because you-ll only get a kick in the face. If you do it right, there-ll be heaven in store for you and more.

One of the most common licking techniques for the long haul is the alphabet technique. The basic idea is to move your tongue over her clitoris in the shape of all the letters in the alphabet. This suggestion accomplishes two goals at the same time because it allows the man to use some variation in the movement pattern, but not enough to spoil the mood, and to prevent the unskilled lover from using the same movements again and again until the lady gets bored.

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Cunnilingus is a form of oral sex by which the vagina is stimulated with the lips and tongue. The term itself comes from two Latin words- cunnus, which designates a woman-s genitals, and lingus, which means -to lick-. The basic technique is to gently lick, kiss or suck on the clitoris, the labia and the vaginal area. In practice, it-s up to the man to decide how to make the lady squirm with pleasure, although he is supposed to take the lady-s suggestions into account.

Many men base their views about cunnilingus on what they-ve seen in pornographic movies and stories. Unfortunately, a porno movie director does not have the money or film time to let the actors stage a proper cunnilingus and so the male star usually goes right for the woman-s clitoris. This is not a good idea because the clitoris is an extremely sensitive organ and should not be approached directly. More so if the woman in question is not fully aroused. Most times it-s preferable to begin cunnilingus with a gentle stimulation of the entire genital area.

Oral sex features the same huge number of variations and techniques as intercourse or anal sex, depending on what the two lovers like and dislike. The best way to go about it is to use your the lips and tongue freely and either deducing from your partner-s response what works best or asking the lady to guide you. If she likes what you-re doing, keep on doing it. If she is uncomfortable and not any closer to orgasm, you might want to change tactics.

Don-t be afraid to use your fingers to get better access to the clitoris or vagina. Don-t be shy to use sex toys. You could try to insert a finger in the vagina or into the anus while stimulating the clitoris with your tongue. These kind of erotic games please ladies no end and can be easily made part of the sex life of any couple, regardless of sexual orientation. Some people tend to think that oral sex is a practice restricted to the gay community, but they are very wrong. Any couple can use oral sex as part of the foreplay or even as a replacement for the main course of the night.

Cunnilingus is a sexual act that does not lead to pregnancies and it-s also considered much safer than both vaginal and anal intercourse. Although many people are not pleased with the thought of oral sex because they worry about diseases or germs which could be passed on from the vagina to the mouth. However, the risk is actually very low, especially since any germ or disease picked up during oral sex would have been picked up through intercourse anyway.

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Men are usually thought to be the most eager for oral sex and many armchair psychologists are sure that the preference for oral sex is a way of demeaning the woman and turning her from a human being into an object that provides sexual pleasure on demand. But other psychologists have doubts about the accuracy of such opinions. It-s worth noting that women enjoy cunnilingus performed by men just as much as men enjoy fellatio. It-s not often that one hears about a woman who turned down a man willing to go down on her.

Oral sex is a sort of umbrella term designating all sexual practices that involve the use of the tongue, mouth and even throat (you know when) to stimulate the genital organs. This kind of sex may be used as foreplay, as an equivalent for intercourse, as a means of reaching the climax after intercourse and even following intercourse. It also may be used as a form of contraception, coming from the idea that conception can never occur because the sperm does not enter the vagina. Nevertheless, couples should still be careful if their preferred method of sex is intercourse followed by oral climax because this contraception method is not 100 percent safe. Pregnancies can still happen, mainly because of poor timing on the withdrawal.

The three big types of oral sex are- fellatio, cunnilingus and anilingus. Fellatio is the oral stimulation of the penis and is usually performed by taking the head of the penis and part of the shaft in the mouth. Caressing the testicles with the tongue is also common during fellatio. Oral stimulation may be aided by hand stimulation of the penis in order to increase pleasure and speed up the orgasm. A well-known variation of fellatio is called -deep throat- and it focuses on taking the entire penis in the mouth. In this case, the head of the penis is pushed down the throat of the person performing fellatio.

Cunnilingus is the act of using the lips and the tongue to stimulate the female genitals and especially the clitoris, which is the most sensitive part of a woman-s sexual organs. Oral sex and masturbation are two very good options for giving a woman an orgasm, since studies have shown that only one third of all women can reach orgasm easily through intercourse. The genital organs of women are more complex than the male penis, which means that men have to learn how to please their partners on an individual basis. It is common to insert a finger or sex toy in the vagina or anus during cunnilingus.

And, finally, anilingus is the technique of stimulating the anus with the lips or by forcing the tongue into the sphincter muscle. Although many people believe that the practice of anilingus is restricted to the gay community, it is in fact practiced by people of all sexual orientations. The anus contains nerve endings similar to the genitalia, which makes oral stimulation very arousing.

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This kind of behaviour is very common. Nearly every man asks himself the -Size Question- at some point or another in his life and since men are too afraid to ask the question directly, they never get a satisfactory answer. And so the matter drags on in their minds instead of being put to rest once and for all. It-s a shame that some men find nothing better to do with their time and efforts than to prove to themselves and to the world that they don-t have small penises. This fear of being too small may grow to become a serious problem for some men. It-s a blight upon their confidence and it may drive them to do silly things.

Women are looking for other things aside from a big penis. It-s not that having 7 or 8 inches doesn-t help at all. Women like to ogle men before getting into anything serious and a sizeable bulge in the pants scores points with them. Studies and polls have conclusively shown that women are far more interested in partners with good hygiene habits and who know how to bring them to orgasm, big penis or no big penis. Therefore penis size is nothing more than an item on the big check list for most women. Something akin to- -Penis size check - done. Now let-s move on to something even more important-.

The average penis size is 5.5 to 6 inches. And since most men are this size and still think themselves below average, it follows that men are not very good at judging their own size. If you start asking men about the size of their penises, you can be certain that most men would give themselves an extra inch or two, just to come across as really hung guys. However, a bigger organ may look impressive, but if it-s too big to fit comfortably inside the vagina or if the owner is clueless in bed, then all those inches are wasted. And the worst part of all this is the fact that most women care more about the quality and intensity of sex and less about the size of the man-s penis.

If you-re an average-sized guy and not content with your size, there are a few tricks that can help make your penis look bigger. The actual penis size can be hidden by the pubic hair. So, if you think you could profit from this, trim your pubic hair. A simple trick is to have a hot shower before sex. The hot water would help fill the penis with blood and make it hang heavier than normal. Or you could lose some weight. The pad of fat located at the base of the penis can grow in size along with the overall body fat and may obscure the base of the penis. Losing weight would decrease the pad and bring back the hidden inches.

Still, the easiest thing you could do is to have an honest talk with your partner and find out if your penis is adequate in size or if your partner actually cares about this. Still, be advised that, more often than not, an honest talk is likely to bring up other relationship-related issues than penis size. Penis size should be the least of your worries.

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The biggest problem with drugs is that different people respond in different ways. This means there-s no guarantee as to the effects, much less when moods can also interfere with drugs. Imagine that you and your partner are taking something to brighten things up and end up with two very different moods. One of you is aroused, the other is having a bad trip. Definitely not sexy. The second biggest problem is that drugs interfere with the flow of blood, motivation and response to arousal. Let-s take a look at the most common drugs and their effects on love-making.

Cocaine and amphetamines are stimulants of the nervous system and people take them to feel the powerful rush to the brain. But these substances don-t always mix well with sex. Both cocaine and amphetamines are known to cause problems with achieving erections and orgasms. While making orgasm more difficult is a good idea if you want a longer intercourse, this could also lead to chaffing of the intimate parts. This comes highly NOT recommended.

Mescaline, LSD, psilocybin (magic mushrooms) and all the other substances of the psychedelic variety should be left to artists and the very adventurous types. Although these substances are not addictive, their effects are too unpredictable to be of any consistent use. Bad hallucinations and moods could turn sex into a traumatic trip best left outside your range of experiences. While it-s true that these psychoactive substances make people much more aware of each other, they are also very unlikely to promote sexual arousal.

Ecstasy is yet another risky choice. Although MDMA makes people like each other, it is not recommended for sex. Just like some of the above-mentioned substances, MDMA interferes with the sympathetic nervous system and impairs erections. MDMA is more of an empathy drug that opens people up and makes them comfortable with themselves and friendly to others. Some Ecstasy users seek to offset this effect by taking Viagra at the same time as Ecstasy, which your cardiovascular system may not find to be such a hot idea.

The same goes for opiates. Drugs like opium, codeine, morphine and heroin are well-known for decreasing the libido and making erections more difficult. People who use opiates tend to experience solitary pleasures and do not feel that need to share that is so important in sex. And it-s only fair, I suppose. The 30 seconds of pleasure given by sex are a poor match for the four to eight hours of euphoria and tranquillity generated by opiates.

Arguably, the most important effect of all drugs is the banishment, at least for a while, of inhibitions and self-consciousness. This state of mind allows partners to enjoy sex more and to bring out all repressed fantasies. However, the loss of inhibitions is also the reason why users of recreational drugs have unprotected sex with perfect strangers who don-t always mean well.

Having a blast in bed is a great experience. Waking up with various STDs, without the wallet and keys and at a completely unknown location next to a completely unknown person who doesn-t look as good as she/he did last night, is not. I know that using drugs as a prelude to either blackmail or rape is uncommon, but it-s not exactly rare either. Be careful what you do.

In the end, the choice is yours. If you want to take a chance and risk your health and life, a simple article isn-t going to stop you. Still, for your sake try to stop and think before taking any unnecessary risks. Have fun, but stay safe.

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Fortunately, putting on a condom is not a big deal at all and any man, or woman for that matter, can get the hang of it in almost no time at all. If you feel you need to practice before attempting this during sex, by all means go ahead. Condoms can be bought from any pharmacy or, if you don-t feel like informing the pharmacist about your activities, you can use the vending machines.

What you need is an erect penis or something that looks like one, such as a banana or anything else that has the general shape of a penis and does not bend during the test. Break open the pack and take a condom out. Open the foil by tearing away one side and be careful about it. Remember that is very important to keep the condom undamaged. If you manage to botch this step and tear the condom, get another from the pack. Never use a torn condom during sex because it-s perfectly useless. It won-t protect you from STIs and it won-t protect the lady from unwanted pregnancy.

Next, remove the condom from the torn foil and look at it. You will notice that a small tip is hanging on one side of the condom. Be careful though because this tip contains a bit of air and trapping air inside the condom is not a good idea. Grab the tip between your thumb and forefinger and squeeze the air out. And while keeping your fingers on the tip, place the condom on the head of your penis with the tip up. Use your other hand to roll the condom down the length of your shaft.

And this is the final stage of the whole process. Now you are ready for sex and armed with the knowledge of how to properly put on a condom. The last thing you must always pay attention to is to prevent air from entering the condom because it will form pockets that are very likely to break during sex. Also be careful to buy condoms suited to your size otherwise the condom might start to slip off your penis at the worst moment possible. If you are completely new to condoms, buy a couple of sizes and try them all to see which fits you best.

When you-re done, pull out and start taking the condom off. You-d better do this out of the bed, some distance from the lady-s vagina. It would be a bummer to have sex with the condom on only to spill the load while taking the thing off you. The best way to remove it is to grab the tip as before and start pulling your penis out. Wrap the used condom in tissue paper, throw it in the garbage can and go wash. Now you-re all done.

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Any person who-s tried to stimulate the G- spot knows that it is located on the vagina wall, toward the pelvic bone and that in order to reach it one must insert a finger and then bend it upwards. This is by far the easiest way to find the G-spot and to stimulate it. Once you-re there, you can either move the finger as though you-re scratching something (don-t use your nails, though) or in little circles in order to cover a wider area. Come to think of it, better use two fingers on the G-spot, to get the most pleasure out of the whole thing. While you-re at it, you can also use a finger or your tongue on the clitoris or, if you-re feeling in a perky mood, put a finger up her anus.

There is not a lot of room for imagination and improvement when it comes to playing with the G-spot. The man can use his fingers, some sex toys or his penis, while the woman can stimulate herself using her fingers or toys. Of course, the sex toys must be appropriate for this activity, which means that you need a dildo or vibrator with a hooked or bent tip that makes it easier to reach the G-spot. Don-t move the toy around too much and don-t try to make circles with the tip. Toys are harder to use than fingers, so try to move the tip back and forward over the spot, while adding a little pressure. Your partner will certainly let you know if what you do feels good or not.

The playful lover knows that he can also reach the G-spot with his penis, although the thing is a bit trickier than just moving a finger around. You and your lady must try a couple of different positions in order to find those that allow you to give the G-spot a good rubbing. Doggy style comes to mind, because the penis can rub against that sensitive patch of flesh both when going in and when pulling out. Of course, the positions featuring the woman on top are also very good because the lady can adjust the angle of insertion to make sure that the penis takes the correct route.

So there you have them, the three options for the bold lovers who are not content with regular sex, but are interested in discovering new ways of pleasing each other. And there-s probably no better way of pleasing a woman that full stimulation of both the G-spot and the clitoris at the same time. Men should not be ashamed to ask the ladies to help them locate the G-spot, especially since the ladies will certainly be eager to help. After all, it-s in their best interest.

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And now let-s move on to the practical part of the talk around the G-spot. I-m sure that you are eager to get right down to it and get your hands (or at least a finger) on the little bugger. Some men see this as a challenge and as something of a duty because they think it their duty to give their ladies the best possible orgasms. And that simply has to include a bull-s eye hit on the G-spot during every sex session. Stimulation of the G-Spot has also seen heavy use at the hands of sex experts who promote it as a bonus for happy couples and a true miracle for men who fail to please their ladies.

One of the things you want to keep an eye on is your lady-s reaction. As you get closer to the spot, she might instinctively pull back to avoid the direct stimulation of that sensitive spot. This could get you off the course and searching in the wrong area. You also want to begin the search only after your partner has been properly aroused. You could even wait until she had an orgasm and take it from there. The more aroused the woman, the more likely she is to feel the difference in sensation between the G-spot and the rest of the vaginal wall. Apply firm pressure and watch your lady-s reactions. She will guide you to the target.

The G-Spot can also be stimulated using the finger or tongue. It would require a 1 to 3-inch penetration of the vagina. No exact distance can be given since it varies from one woman to another. Experts found that changes in tissue structure occurring beyond the age of 30 make the G-Spot easier to reach. This is why some women in their thirties believe they are experiencing their sexual peak. The fingers are your best bet anytime, but there are also specially designed vibrators that can be used for stimulation. However, it is preferable to find the G-spot first with your fingers and then start poking around with the vibrator.

And finally, don-t be depressed if you failed to find it on the first try. Just think that you get more than one chance to finger your lady at will. Work on it and you will discover the G-spot sooner or later. On the other hand, if your lady simply lacks the higher sensitivity in that particular area, then that-s that. Don-t despair- there are other ways of dealing with the situation. You can always rely on the clitoris, the only organ dedicated exclusively to sexual pleasure, to get your lady over the edge and put a smile on her face.

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