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Most of us during one time or another have problems getting laid. We might not admit it, but during this period we might buy more hand lotion than anyone may believe. Don't fret it, there are reasons why you might not be getting laid. Ahhh, this is where escorts come in handy. I know, those are whores. You are right they are, but they put out without a problem. If you show the green backs, she will lie on her back for you. Pretty simple isn't it? There are a lot of reasons why men might go to an escort. A person who is a traveling businessman might not have the time to find a one night stand, or even a long term relationship for that matter. The same is true with doctors, scientists, lawyers, and so forth. They get so wrapped in their work that they don't have time for a relationship.
For them, an escort is an easy way to get some bliss.

The great thing about money is, if you have a lot of it, you can get yourself a mighty fine escort. We all have seen those crack whores without teeth who will give blow jobs for 20 dollars. These women on the other hand, are the cream of the crop. They look like they just walked out of the pages of Playboy. They are the women every man dreams of.

Rich guys love having a hot babe hooked to their arm. They can take them out to dinner and show them off. Parade her as if she was a dog at a dog show. He can smile to the world and he thinks that the rest of the world envies him because he has a hot babe with him.

A man loves this kind of date because he knows if the price is right, she will come on down and score. Unless you have a prude for an escort, you know that at the end of the night you are getting laid. A lot of people like this because there is no worries about the sex. You don't have to take a woman out at a nice restaurant and wonder if you are going to get any. If you got the bills, you know you will get some action.

Some men who are well, ugly as a dog's ass use escorts too. To be fair, not all are ugly. Some might have the personality of a box of rocks. Either their looks or personality prevents them from getting laid. There is three options for fellas like this.. Buy some hand lotion, get a sex toy, or get an escort.

Some men hire escorts not for sex, but for company. A man who loses his wife due to divorce can be very lonely. Life can suck when all you do is work and go home and watch reruns on television every day. A woman can add that little sparkle to the day.

Not every escort is out just for sex. You would be surprised if you asked if they get many clients not looking for sex. Some people are lonely and just want someone to talk to. We have all heard stories about men who call phone sex lines not to talk dirty, but just to talk to someone. Paying an escort for this, is a very expensive way to cure your loneliness. I wouldn't suggest this unless you have a big bank roll.

I think some men visit escorts for the rush. It is like getting a blow job in a movie theater. You know it is taboo so you want to do it more. The idea of a woman sucking you off just for the cash is a turn on. It can also be about power. You have the money and she needs/wants the money. If she doesn't suck on your pole, then she will go home broke.

I have heard tons of men say they would never visit an escort. Then they go on to tell me what they sexual fantasies are and how they are never fulfilled. This is also why some men go to escorts. They like telling a woman what to wear, how to suck their boner, to bend over and beg for it. How many men out there wouldn't want a woman who would beg them to stick their penis in her anus? Well, for the right amount of money, that is possible.

With all things in life, you get what you invest. You know that if you go with an escort, it is only a one night fling. This might not be the best option for you. Rather, you should try to find a mate that you can have a loving relationship. After you visit enough escorts, sex becomes cheap and a hassle. Some of these escorts cost bundles of money, so if this is your only hope, you might end up in the poor house.

I'm not sure that I would recommend anyone pay a visit to an escort. As with anyone who has sex often with multiple partners, there is a high risk of getting a disease. Personally, I would rather stay at home and wank my crank, but that is me.

If you do choose to visit one of these working girls, always wear a condom. Don't fall for the bit that she is on the pill or she is allergic to latex. If she says something like that, take your money and get another escort. She is obviously very stupid, or trying to infect you with something.

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It was only a matter of time. Us men have finally got a wonder drug for our sexual imperfections. Some men call it Viagra, other men call it God. I'm not sure how I feel about it, I have never taken the stuff myself. At this point in my life if I did take it, I would have one hell of a sore arm. If people asked why I was walking around holding my arm funny, I could claim that I have tennis elbow. Now woman have a drug that helps them achieve an orgasm. I know what you are thinking, no its not alcohol. It is called Viatara. It is called the wonder drug of our lifetime.

Viatara is a cream. You cream it to the clitoris... What happens is, it helps blood flow to the clitoris. A woman will enjoy a tingling feeling in her clitoris for about 30 minutes. You should take a little of the cream and rub it on her arm before trying it out on her clitoris. If it becomes itchy, don't use the product on her clitoris. Her arm might get red where you rubbed it in. This is natural and will only last for up to 15 minutes. After 15 minutes all the redness should be gone.

Use these directions when using Viatara on your partner-

1- Pump about three or four squirts and rub it into her clitoris.

2- Manually stimulate her clitoris.

3- You can orally stimulate her clitoris also. Viatara is non toxic. You might notice that it tastes like a very strong vitamin.

4- Penetrate her and rub her clitoris with your fingers. Play around with positions to see which ones is best for this.

5- Don't be upset that she is using a drug to feel good. Would she get upset if you took Viagra to achieve an orgasm? Probably not. She would know that you have a health problem and respect that you are doing something that will make both of your lives better.

Sex isn't everything fellas. We might want to think that it is, but it isn't. Just because you can't please her on your own doesn't mean that she doesn't deserved to be pleased. You need to understand that this can be a medical problem. She doesn't choose not to have an orgasm, there is something wrong with her.

I would much rather prefer her being open about not being able to have an orgasm and having to use Viatara than I would her using it in secret. What you run the risk of is having her use it alone. You won't be able to enjoy the effects of the drug or being able to watch her orgasm. Worse than that, this might actually cause you to not score. She might feel so alienated by your reaction to her problem, that she won't want to have sex with you. How would you feel if you had a health problem and your girlfriend wasn't caring about it? It would make you feel pretty damned uncomfortable!

Having an orgasm is good for our mental health as well. It releases chemicals in our brain that helps calm us. It helps relieve the day to day stresses that we face. We all know what an orgasm does for us. Imagine if you couldn't enjoy an orgasm? You would be one cranky son of a bitch!

Guys, don't sweat this. You really shouldn't. Enjoy this new miracle drug. You and your girlfriend will get more out of sex if you do!

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The hip thing these days it seems is for women to call themselves virgins. I don't really understand this, because very few of them are actually virgins. I think women are trying to win back their dignity. They want to seem as pure sugar while they lay on their backs for every Tom, Dick, and Hairy. This trend seems to me a bit far fetched, but hey, I thought getting your eye brow pierced was too. Finding a virgin is like finding a needle in a needle in a hay stack. They are like an animal on the endangered species list. I know they exist, but I'm not sure if I have ever seen one.
Sometimes it seems that you almost have to be like the Crocodile Hunter and go out and hunt one down. I don't know if it is worth the time, unless you are into such a beast...

There are many reasons why a woman might want to be a virgin. In this day and age of diseases, its not that bad of an idea. I have yet to have such great sex that it is worth dying for. I have never had sex with a Playboy Playmate, so maybe I don't know what I am talking about.

- By not having sex you don't have any risk of getting pregnant. Men these days don't seem to want to take care of their babies. Nothing would be worse than having a baby and being forced to work at a fast food joint to pay the bills. Being a single mother is tough these days and I don't blame them for not wanting to take that chance. It is hard enough to live on your own, let alone have to worry about kids.
- Some women may choose not to have sex for religious reasons. This is probably the number one reason why women stay virgins. They believe that they aren't allowed to have sex until they are married. I went to church when I was a teenager and during this time a lot of girls in the church were having sex. I guess some people practice this, while others just claim that they do.

- There is the type of woman who claims she is a virgin but yet will give you oral sex. She will allow you to stick your fingers in her love cave and get them stinky. She does this so in her mind she is still a virgin, pure and clean.

I'm not sure that I would call someone who can toot your flute like they are playing in an orchestra a virgin. I guess this can help reduce the risk of catching a disease. Also, you don't run the risk of pregnancy. If she wants to toot your flute, let her play all the notes she wants.

The next bunch of virgins are the type that allow you to touch them, but not do anything else. She may allow you to feel her breasts or lick her nipples. If you are lucky she will cop a feel of your penis. That is about as far as it goes with her. She might eventually end up being like the 'virgins' who will toot your flute. I wouldn't count on it though.

This might sound odd, so make sure you are sitting down for this next one. Some 'virgins' enjoy anal sex. They feel since they aren't using their vagina's it really isn't sex. Anal sex is called anal sex for a reason, because it is sex. Just like oral sex is sex. I have no idea why a woman thinks that if she spreads her cheeks, she is still a virgin. I guess it doesn't matter in the long run. All that matters if you can get some of the sweet anal love canal. I won't argue if she thinks this will keep her a virgin.

Sometimes when a woman hasn't had sex in a while, the vagina can shrink to its normal size. She can actually bleed the first time she has sex in a long, long time. Though she isn't really a virgin, she will seem like it. This is like the David Copperfield of virgins. There is some magic going on in tat putty cat.

Some women are what they call 'secondary virgins'. This really blows my mind. Basically they go out and screw everything thing that moves and decide they will be a virgin until they get married. I'm not sure how they can feel they are a virgin, but who am I to understand anything about a woman. I think this usually happens after a woman has a religious experience and decides that she will take the plunge again after she is married.

Why is this so important? To a man, he could care less really. Getting to lay a virgin is like winning a world series, but after a certain age you realize that your chances of this is slim. Personally, I think as you get older it is no longer an issue. You want a woman who can rock your world in bed, not someone who has never done anything before. Other than not having to worry about disease, to me and probably most men, this whole virgin thing is plain stupid.

The reason why some women are so obsessed about this is, they want to remain pure. Their virginity is the only thing that they see as making them pure and clean. They can talk like a sailor who has had too many beers, but yet if that precious tuna canal hasn't been explored, they are pure as can be.

I am amazed that this is still an issue. After all of the women's rights stuff in the 1960's, I would have figured this was long gone. I guess I am wrong. If this confuses you as much as it does me, then just leave it alone. If your woman is claiming she is a virgin, but yet has screwed the High school football team, I would leave her be. She is more than likely a nut case and needs to be avoided.

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Women hate to see their men stare at other women. That is why most of us guys have to look at porn in secret. They get too jealous at us looking at other women. So, we jack off in private and they get mad at that too. They get mad at the idea that we are having any kind of pleasure that doesn't involve them. Sometimes I have wondered if this is just another attempt to control us. On the other hand, I know that it is. When you turn on the television, you see a ton of different programming. You can watch soaps, sports, talk shows, anything you can imagine. This is true with porn as well.
These tend to be the type of movies that you fast forward to the sex scenes.

If your woman is skeptical about porn, I would go with one of these types of movies. She will enjoy the content of it, while you enjoy the sex scenes. Sometimes in life you have to give to receive.

I think some women don't like porn because it makes them feel uneasy about themselves. They see you going ape shit about a woman who has perfect breasts and a nice round ass. They see your penis get hard super fast looking at this woman comp aired to when you are in bed with her.

I think men would get upset if women were the same way. Luckily, women aren't as much into porn as we are. Or we would all sound like a pussy and complain like our girlfriends do.

If your woman likes any kind of porn, great. Enjoy it with her. It will help you enjoy your sex life more. If she doesn't like porn, try and see if she has a fetish she would like to explore. Maybe she would like to see some guys with big dicks get it on or something. That isn't as bad as it sounds. If she is into something like guys with really big dicks, just makes sure you find some that are having sex with women you find attractive. This way you both win.

There is an increasing market for female porn viewers. I have seen many women go to the adult bookstore in my area to buy things. They all might not be buying porn movies, but the fact that they are going into such a place tends to show they are becoming more open.

I used to know a woman who loved watching gay porn. Before you spit out your morning coffee, think about it. We enjoy seeing two women go at it, why wouldn't women enjoy watching gay men have sex? I know that seeing two gay men have sex can curdle the milk in your morning coffee and make your penis more limp than a worm on a sidewalk, but think about it. If you want her to watch those hot lesbians go at it, why not give and take a little. If she gets turned on, maybe she will want you to go down on her while she watches it. If that is the case, you won't have to watch any of it. All you will be focusing on will be her canal du stink.

Porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life. On the other hand, it can ruin you. There are plenty of people in this world who are addicted to porn. That's right, they are addicted to it like a drug. I don't know if they shake if they haven't wacked it to a porn movie lately, but I think you get the drift.

If you find that you are addicted to porn or can become addicted to it, I would suggest that you stay away from it. It will do nothing but harm you in the long run. There are support groups for people who are addicted to porn. I know that the whole idea of being addicted to porn seems weird. It is like someone becoming addicted to hot chocolate. How could anyone become addicted to such a great thing?

Like most things when it comes to sexuality, I wouldn't force her to enjoy your love of porn. That will do nothing but make her hate it more in the long run. Instead, introduce it slowly and see how she responds. I would go with some soft core stuff. I wouldn't rush right into a gang bang movie or a bukakke movie right away. That will turn her off in a second.

If she strongly opposes you looking at porn, well, look at it while she isn't there. Make sure that your computer doesn't leave any tracks behind that you have been looking at porn. Make sure if you are watching a porn tape, that you take the tape out of the VCR. Nothing would piss her off more than to turn on the VCR thinking that she is going to watch her favorite soap that she taped while she was away, only to find two big breasted women enjoying a bit of lesbianism.

Like most things in life, moderation is the key. Don't over due it. If she sees that you want to watch porn every time you have sex, she will think that she can't arouse you. If that happens, watch out. You won't get laid for a long, long time. Then you will have to look at porn when you are horny!

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It shouldn't be surprising that women have fantasies also. Sometimes, they are more sexual than ours our. In this article we will discuss the top ten fantasies that women have. You will want to print this one out for future reference. Here we go, please pay attention! Having sex with strangers- This might sound odd, but women fantasize about this as well. Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. People feel like they don't have a standard they have to live with, since they won't be coming back for seconds. People engage in this type of sex because they feel that they won't be judged.
The only thing they are after is getting their rocks off, so if it feels good, then there is no reason to judge.

The more people the better- Group sex can be exciting for a woman. I don't mean that they want you to call your buddies over for a gang bang. Women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with their partners. Unless of course, they are into swinging.

* Are you my daddy? Some women like to be controlled or to control their partner. Sometimes they want to be spanked and told to yell out slogans or phrases. Sometimes they may want to spank you and have you suck on things.

* Having sex in public- This really turns some women on. The idea of someone else watching them in the heat of the moment in public can be a real turn on. Find a place that you can feel secure and bang the night away. She will love it.

* Domination- While I don't understand this one, a lot of people like it. Some women want to be told how and when to do things. She might like it when you tell her to lick your testicles and suck on your penis, I have known women who really get off on this sort of thing. Try it out, she might like it.

* Some women like to be roughed up a bit. They want you to hit them and tell them that you will hurt them if you don't have sex with them. I don't understand it, to me it sounds too much like rape. But what the hey, if it gets her off, that is all that matters.

* Having sex with another woman- This shouldn't be no big surprise. Women can be better at pleasing another woman. Most men like it, some don't. If your woman likes to do this and it turns you own, enjoy it.
Lesbianism can be a beautiful thing. Have her invite friends over that will also allow you to participate. I have done this and it is great. After the first time you will be hooked. Hell, I can just sit and watch them go at it and I am in ecstasy.

* Being a hooker- It is the oldest profession in the world. Some people think it is dirty, some women find it to be a turn on. That is probably why there isn't a shortage of whores in this world. People like receiving rewards for a job well done. If a woman fantasizes about being a hooker, chances are a big part of her fantasy is that the guy gives her a big tip for pleasuring him.

* A three way- This is common for both men and women. Two people can pleasure better than one. The most common fantasy is where a man is doing her from behind while another man licks her clitoris.

* Having two partners in bed, doubles the pleasure. Makes the evening more enjoyable. This goes for women as well as it does for men. If she wants you to do this, do it if you are comfortable. If the idea of another man banging your girlfriend is okay with you, do it until your hearts content. If on the other hand she is just a piece of ass you are banging for the fun of it, go for it. She might as well have some fun too.

* Being the man of the hour- This one might catch you a little off guard. This is one of the more popular fantasies women have. Most say that they want to use a strap on dildo and have sex with their male partner.

I don't think it is as much about the sex as it is the power. The feeling of having a penis and using it. Feeling him squabble when she sticks the fake penis in his anus. It is about power. Some women want that power.

Being raped- With all the news of violence and rape in the news towards women, this one took me by surprise. I'm not sure how to react to it and I am not sure how to write about it.

Some women want to be slapped and beat and forced to have sex. Just like you would expect to see if you were watching a woman get raped. They want you to put your hand up their skirts and feel their panties. They want you to kiss them hard so their lipstick runs across their face.

I think this comes from wanting to be powerless. They want to feel that someone else is in control of them and their fate. Please don't engage in this sort of thing unless you are 100% sure that she is a willing participant. You could end up actually raping someone and going to jail if you don't.

These are some tips that you can use to spice up your sex life. If she isn't willing to do these things, then don't force her. Fantasies are about making sex more enjoyable, not making it a living hell. Listen to your partner and know your boundaries. This will make for better sex.

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As you are reading this, women around the world are franticly shopping for lingerie to attract their man's eye. Men love to see their woman wearing a hot little outfit. I kind of think this is like how a dog salivates when he sees a dog snack. He knows he is about to eat and it will taste good. The same goes for men, we see how hot she looks and we know we are about to have sex. Why do women wear lingerie? Let's talk about two of the biggest reasons. One is to make them feel sexy. Some women even wear lingerie underneath their normal clothes. They like to feel sexy. Nothing feels sexy like a little silk on their skin. I think women do this to help their self esteem. It makes them for confidant throughout the day. The idea of a woman wearing lingerie under her clothes gives me a hard on, so I try not to think about it too often.

She loves the anticipation. She loves to see you drool when she walks into the bedroom with her hot little outfit on. A woman likes to know that she is turning you on. Nothing in life is more important to her. Unless she is a gold digger, than the most important thing to her is your wallet. Which, probably paid for the sexy outfit.

Some men don't understand why a woman would spend a hundred dollars on an outfit that will be taken off in 30 seconds. Other men adorn every thread on their woman's body. Lingerie doesn't have to be an acquired taste.

Here are some reasons why men love lingerie. Some of these may surprise you-
1. Men like the idea that their woman is taking the time out to do something special for them. It makes them feel that they are worthy to their partner. It is like you have a private titty bar right in your very own house. A man watches porn all day, he likes to see his wife look like the women in the movies.
2. Men don't want an old hag that looks like a grandma. Most men want a woman that is beautiful and willing to take care of herself. The idea of her wearing sexy clothes goes along with this. If she spends a few minutes caring what she looks like, then chances are she cares what you think of her. That makes you feel special. Also, it makes your penis hard when she bends over.
3. Lingerie can help people get out of the ho hum life they live. A woman who takes care of the kids all day can't wear sexy clothes. Why pay a hundred dollars for something when the baby is going to spit up all over it?
4. I think this is the same reason why girls enter beauty pageants. They want to know that someone thinks they are good looking. When she sees how aroused you get when she wears that special bra and panties, it makes her feel good. It gives her a chance to escape from the world that she lives in.

Also it spices up life a little bit. It makes people feel good that they have the ability to change things for once in their life. They can change the go no where sex to hot steamy sex just by wearing something a little different.

Sometimes women see something on television that claims to arouse men and they run right to the store to get some for themselves. When was the last time she seen something on television that looked good to eat and she bought it? The same is with the Victoria Secrets commercials. They see it and they want to try it. I also think they see these beautiful women wearing them on television and they think that they can look like them.

Now, let's talk about the most popular lingerie. Take notes and run straight to the store to pick up some for your woman.

Chemise- Watching her walk around in a tiny see through silk mini skirt turns a lot of men on. Who wouldn't want to see that?

Babydoll- This is the type of thing that makes her boobies look really perky. Usually there is a slit that goes down under her chest.

The teddy- This is the most popular. Men go crazy for this one. It looks like a bathing suit, but has buttons in the crotch. Men love this because as they unbutton the buttons, all they think about is tasting that precious love canal.

Thong- I always go crazy when I see a woman in a thong. I like it because I can see all of her ass. There is no guess work when it comes to a thong.

Push up bra- These are great. I love how they push up their boobies. It makes them look more full and perky. That just makes my day.

It isn't all in your head why you like lingerie so much. It is the same reason why your mouth waters when you see a nice juicy steak. You know that it is going to taste good going down and make you want to take a nap when its all over. Well, maybe that is a little over the top.

Men get aroused with their eyes. Lingerie helps with this. If you are having problems getting an erection or you feel your love life has gone to hell, lingerie can help add that spark back. It is worth a try. What do you have to loose?

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Women control the sex in a relationship. This isn't nothing new to us. We know that we have to kiss ass and then some to get laid. It is all in their game plan. To understand why women control sex, we must understand women in general. Women, like most other creatures on this earth start out as a young creature. In the case of humans, we call this stage childhood. In the childhood stage, women understand that they can control everything. They learn early on that if they pout, their dad will do what ever they want them to do. It only goes deeper from there.
They get a little older and realize that boys pay attention to their forming breasts. They know this drives the boys crazy and will act accordingly.

As they get older, they see the full potential and exploit the hell out of it. They know that if they rub up against you, you are at their mercy. I used to know a woman who I worked with who would rub her tits on male coworkers to get them to do things for her. Kind of weird how much power women have.

All of this carries on to their sexual relationships when they get older. They control every aspect of the sex. If she doesn't want to have sex, she will make up some hair brained excuse for not having it. She might say that she has a headache or something like that.

What women don't understand is that this has a mental effect on a man. It makes them feel let down. Like they are a worthless piece of shit. Men often times equate sex with worthy ness. If she doesn't have sex with you one night, you feel like you have let her down in some way. It is because you let her down, she doesn't want to have sex with you.

Back in the old days, people used to barter for goods and services. You might trade some cheese for some leather, that sort of thing. Bartering for the most part is a lost tradition. Most people don't do this anymore. Most of us go to the store and pay for our things with money.

Bartering still has one legendary form though. It still goes on to this day. Women barter for sex. Most men are too stupid or horny to catch on to this. They will hint around to you that if she puts out then you have to do something.

We have all heard this before. It may go something like this, 'Honey, after we have sex would you wash the car'. It might sound like a simple thing, if you had brought up sex to begin with. Often times she will slip something like that in a conversation in the morning before breakfast.

I know what you are thinking. There is a reason why we don't use the barter system anymore. Someone usually ends up getting the short end of the stick. That is true, but we still use it for sex. Usually it is the man who ends up being ripped off.

One of the ways that you can avoid this is by trying to turn her on. If you are able to get her horny enough, you might just be able to score. None of us can resist when we are horny.

You need to put your foot down. You can't allow your woman to control sex. There is a point that it is healthy and there is a point that it has gone over board. If she has a valid reason for not wanting to have sex, then I would honor it. If she is sick or under a lot of stress, then sex can wait. No one wants to have sex under these conditions. Keep in mind, there will be another day you can get laid.

If on the other hand, she controls sex and has no reason to, you need to rethink your position some. If this was the civil war, you would be rethinking the Battle of Bunker Hill. Or in this case, the Battle of the Stinky Mound.

You need to understand that no one should control 100% of anything in your life. You wouldn't allow her to control how much bread you eat each day. Why allow her to control how much sex you have? There is a point that it becomes stupid.

If out of the last 10 times you asked for sex you were turned down five times or more, you need to have a talk. You need to tell her that either she puts out or she gets out. There is no other way around it. You work hard for a living and you deserve a little satisfaction. Don't allow yourself to be fooled with her 'all you think about is sex' routine. If you have been turned down that many times, all you think about is sex because you aren't getting any!

The least she could do is put out from time to time. You aren't asking her to build a space ship and take you to Mars. All you are asking for is a little action. Think of it like this, if you haven't had it for a long time, how long are you going to last? She can spare 10 minutes of her life so you can get your rocks off. There is no excuse for behavior like this. If she is doing this to you, throw her out like the trash she is.

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Well, watching a woman please another woman is up there too I guess. In today's world of fast food, debit cards, it isn't so surprising that a woman enjoys pleasing herself. This is a fast high tech world. Woman are working as many hours as men these days. They don't have the time to go out and search for the guy who will lay them once and ruin their lives. There are many reasons why a woman would want to masturbate. Just like there are many reasons why you masturbate. It doesn't take much thought to figure it out. Most men don't understand the female body.

The clitoris has to be stimulated for maximum pleasure. The clitoris is much like the head of a penis. Could you imagine having sex with only your shaft? That wouldn't make for very enjoyable sex.

A few hundred years ago it was common for a woman who had a strong need to go to a doctor and have him masturbate her. This was done because it was their belief that a horny woman could lead to bad things. It wasn't healthy to have sex more than once per week.

These doctors usually spent up to 50% of their time masturbating women. That had to be some job. Could you imagine getting paid to masturbate women? I would work overtime every chance I got.

This shows something bigger though. It shows that most men don't know how to please a woman. I'm not saying that sex once a week is enough, but I think you know what I am saying. If you lived back in this era and your woman had to go to the doctor to have an orgasm, you are doing something wrong.

Being that most men can't please a woman, a vibrator isn't a bad choice. Actually their doctor will tell them to use a vibrator. It is good because they can control the orgasm better with one. This comes in 'handy' if your partner can't please you.

Some women don't want the hassle of finding a mate. They use sex toys in the same way that men use escorts. They figure that it isn't worth their time to find a mate, so why bother? The sex toy is easier and quicker than what a man can do. They can make themselves have an orgasm in half the time a man can give them one.

Another aspect is that they don't want the risk of disease. This might be more prevalent than you might think. Regardless of how good the sex is, it isn't worth dying over. This is a valid reason why any man or woman would masturbate. No one wants to run to their grave. Most prefer to waltz.

Some women don't want the risk of having a baby. With all the asshole men who don't take care of their children, I don't blame them one bit for this one. In today's world, it is hard enough to make a living for yourself, let alone several mouths to feed. Masturbation helps take away any risk of this and she still gets to enjoy a great orgasm.

One woman told me that a vibrator is everything a man isn't. A vibrator is always ready to go. No need to wait for it to get an erection. It won't leave the house dirty and want you to clean up after it. It won't cheat on you. It won't expect after you are done to make it something to eat. While I had a good chuckle at what she had to say, it is the truth.

Here are three things that men fear about vibrators.

-Female masturbation is wrong. I don't understand how men feel this way, but they do. They jack off, but it is wrong for their women to do so.

-She will become addicted to it. Men fear the introduction of anything other than their penis when it comes to the bedroom. Don't fear the vibrator, love it. Enjoy watching her orgasm like there is no tomorrow.

-She will have no need for a real penis. This happens, but not as much as men fear. Nothing will replace the touch of another human being. Unless their vibrators can cuddle them after they are done, it won't replace you.

Understanding that women have sexual needs is important like understanding you have sexual needs. There is no need to run from it. A horny woman isn't a slut, but just a horny woman. If you have a woman who is horny all the time, don't get bent out of shape. Most men would love to have a woman like yours.

There is another aspect to this discussion. Sometimes we just want to relax and enjoy the pleasure of an orgasm alone. There is nothing wrong with this. Sometimes we just need time to relax and be alone. This is a great way to get the stresses of the day off of our shoulders and relax.


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I think this is one of the areas that the mind set is different for men and women. For a man, it depends on the length of a relationship. If they know it will be short term, trust and communication isn't really an issue. They know all they are in it for is the sex and they know that it will be over in a small amount of time.On the other hand, women see it differently. I think some of it is because they were taught as kids to be afraid of men. They are told to be on the look out for strangers or people who might harm them. Think about it... How many times do you hear of a woman raping a child? Not very often.

I do think this plays into the mind set of a woman. She will need someone she can trust and communicate with to have sex. Now, I don't mean that this is the case with a one night stand or someone that she has casual sex with. Instead, this is in regards to a relationship. You see, women view all relationships as a strong bond. Being that this is the case, even for a short term relationship she needs to have trust and communication to have sex.

Let's talk about trust for a little while. You might not like what I have to say, but that is your choice.

- Women have a reason why they shouldn't trust men. Actually, they have a lot of reasons. On one hand I feel that this is a sad thing, but on the other hand I understand it. I understand the sexual desires of a man and I understand why they think they way they do.

- We all are looking to get a woman in bed. We all want to get our freak on as much as we can. Women know this. This is a reason why she doesn't trust men. She knows that men will say anything and I mean anything to get in her pants. How many times have you lied trying to get into a girls pants? Probably more times than you can count.

- Again the issue with the girls that get raped while they are kids. This does put a lot of fear into a woman at an early age. Also, people rape adults. So they are constantly on the look out for the person who is going to rape them. It does happen, more so than what we may think. It is a sad state in this world when men have to rape a woman to have sex. Personally if I was in such a situation, I would rent a porn movie and jerk off.

- Women sometimes don't trust men because their fathers were abusive. This has more of an effect on women than we would like to think. A lot of people have had abusive childhoods. It is more common than we think.

- If you are out for a quick lay, I'm not sure that it is worth the effort to try to figure out why a potential date or even your current girlfriend has issues with trusting you. I mean, if you are only looking for sex and she isn't giving it to you, why stick around?

- If on the other hand you are looking for a long term relationship with this woman, then you should take the time out to know why she is the way she is. She might have been abused or raped sometime in her life. It is important to know this, but I wouldn't dig too deep.

- If you have to dig deep about what bothers her about men, chances are she doesn't want you or anyone else to know. It is possible that after she feels more comfortable with you, she will tell you. On the other hand, she might just think you are an asshole.

- People can be very timid in regards to telling others about their problems. They are afraid they may laugh at them or hold it against them. This does happen. You might not think about it, but some men won't even touch a woman who has been raped. They don't understand that it wasn't their fault, all they think about is the dirty act and how dirty they must be.

This is why it is important that you keep an open line of communication with your woman. She needs to know that she can talk about anything and everything to you. The next time she talks about her period, don't go ape shit and tell her that it is disgusting. Put up with it and ask questions if you need to. This is the key thing if you want her to trust you.

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"I have been married for 20 years. My wife just told me that she has never experienced an orgasm when we were together, but she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. I don't know what to think. I love my wife, but she's been hiding this from me for more than 20 years! Why wouldn't she just tell me?" A lot of women fake orgasm. Some women in their 40's or 50's have been faking with their husbands for the entire duration of their marriages. Almost every woman has faked it at least a time or two. Which means that almost every man has experienced a woman orgasming who wasn't...

Why do women fake?

Some do it to avoid disappointing their partner. Some women wish to avoid continued intercourse, and fake orgasm to bring things to a conclusion. A lot of women are given the message that they are "less than" women if they do not have an orgasm. Some women realize that their partner is really trying and want to reward his efforts even though they didn't come.

Some women are afraid of damaging their partner's ego... Let's face it, some men DO feel mighty sensitive if his partner doesn't come.

Can a man tell if a woman fakes an orgasm?

The best way to tell if a woman has faked an orgasm is by the way she acts afterwards. Women usually take a couple minutes to "come down" after good sex and an orgasm. If the woman you're with is immediately peppy and full of energy, she might be faking it.

Most women like to cuddle after sex, but a woman who does not orgasm often does not feel as cuddly. In fact, she's often rather energetic at a time where all that energy does not make sense - right after you made love. She may want to make coffee, or do a little cleaning. She will not feel close with you, and she won't feel relaxed.

As sexual tension builds, so does adrenaline. When we orgasm, the body releases chemicals that relax the tension. That is why men often fall asleep, and women seem dazed and dreamy right afterwards. A man or woman who has felt sexual tension build and has not experienced release will still be under the influence of the adrenaline.

"Was it good for you?"

Paradoxically enough, if you're not sure if your partner really came, and you ask her "honey, was it good for you?", you will often only irritate her. Even worse would be to ask her "Did you come?" We all like to feel that our partners are paying attention to what we're feeling and experiencing in sex. It is harder to read women because their orgasms do not include ejaculation - no woman needs to ask "honey, did you come?" because she knows he did.

Although communication is the key to resolving this situation, it often never gets addressed.
For one thing, a lot of men are very sensitive about their bedroom skills, and are likely to respond with defensiveness or anger when told that their partner did not orgasm. These men often either blame the woman ("you're not woman enough") or simply make sure she knows that it isn't his fault by making regrettable statements ("my OTHER partners had no complaints").

If your partners are comfortable enough with you, you can determine more of what they really feel. But if you want your partners to trust you enough to communicate, you must be careful not to belittle or blame. Remember that it is harder for a woman to achieve orgasm, and that this is not your fault. Most likely she does not think it is your fault, either. She just feels sort of let down.

What can I do?

You can make yourself an accessible person to your partners. Make sure that you never say insulting or belittling things to them. You can simply tell them that you DO care how they feel but you cannot always tell if they have had an orgasm. Let them know that you will be more than happy to do whatever will make it easier to come, and that if they don't fake it, it would help you to know what they do and don't like. Point out that if they DO fake it, and if you can't tell, it doesn't mean you don't care but it DOES mean that you won't know.

If it's something as simple as taking more time, you're home free. Just extend the foreplay.
If it's that she needs a different position, or only experiences orgasms with oral sex, that is certainly something you can work on.

Always let your partners know that you want them to experience as much pleasure as you do,
and that you would like to know what you do that feels good, or that they don't care for. Let
them know that you won't have hurt feelings, and it will help you to please them.

If a woman you're with fakes it after you have sincerely communicated this to her, it is her issue and not anything to do with you.
If you find sex a way to share and communicate pleasure, and your partners know this, it should be good every time, even if one of you doesn't always orgasm.

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